一塊石頭要經過多少年才能風化成沙

離婚后才發現,前夫每月悄悄給我媽轉錢,已經三年了接到媽媽電話的時候,我正在公司加班。她在電話那頭欲言又止,最后只說了一句:"有件事,我覺得還是要告訴你。"我心里咯噔一下,以為家里出了什么事。直到她說出那個名字,我手里的筆掉在了地上。"你前夫,這三年每個月都給我轉兩千塊錢。"我腦子嗡的一聲,第一反應是:不可能。

我們離婚整整三年,干干凈凈,各自安好。他甚至沒有主動聯系過我一次,連朋友圈都互刪了。可媽媽把轉賬記錄發過來的時候,我坐在工位上愣了很久。每個月15號,準時到賬,備注都是"阿姨保重"。從我們離婚后的第二個月開始,沒斷過。那一刻我忽然想起來,離婚前媽媽生過一場大病,他陪我在醫院守了三天三夜。他當時對我媽說:"阿姨,您就當我是您兒子。"我以為那只是客套話,沒想到離婚后,他比兒子做得還到位。而我呢?離婚這三年,我過得其實挺好。換了工作,升了職,偶爾也有人追,日子比婚姻里輕松多了。我甚至在心里無數次慶幸:還好離了,不然得憋屈一輩子。

可現在想想,當初到底是誰憋屈?我們離婚的理由很常見——他不夠浪漫,不會說話,賺得也不算多。我覺得跟他過日子沒意思,像白開水。他也沒怎么挽留,只說了一句:"你想清楚就好。"我當時覺得他冷漠,現在才明白,那可能是他最后的體面。離婚后,我媽一直沒跟我提過這件事。她大概是怕我多想,也怕我為難。直到最近她身體又不太好,想著這錢不能再收了,才猶豫著告訴我。我問她:"您為什么收?"她沉默了一會兒說:"一開始我也不想要,但他說,這是他自己的心意,跟你沒關系。"跟我沒關系。這話聽起來客氣,卻像一記耳光。

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