世間的戀愛，有千般模樣，萬種風情。而我談過最長的戀愛，竟是與自己。這話聽來自負，細思卻覺悲欣交集。

少時讀《莊子》，見“泉涸，魚相與處于陸，相呴以濕，相濡以沫，不如相忘于江湖”，不甚了了。年歲漸長，乃知人與人之間，再如何親密，終有相隔。父母會老去，伴侶未必常伴，朋友各有前程。唯有自己，從呱呱墜地到白發蒼蒼，始終不離不棄。

自戀非是顧影自憐那般簡單。它是深夜獨坐時，與自己安然相處；是遭遇挫折時，不對自己落井下石；是取得成就時，不吝給自己一個贊許。這般戀愛，不要鮮花禮物，不需海誓山盟，只要一份坦誠相待的勇氣。

記得那年失業，躲在租來的小屋里，三月不出。某日對鏡剃須，忽見鏡中人眼神躲閃，面容憔悴。那一刻忽然醒悟：我辜負了自己。于是振作精神，重新開始。這便是我與自己的戀愛——即使全世界都背過身去，我依然要做自己最忠實的戀人。

愛自己，確實沒有情敵。他人如何優秀，如何美貌，如何成功，都與我的自戀無涉。我不必與人比較，不必擔心被拋棄，不必恐懼被取代。這份愛，安穩如山間明月，照徹每一個獨行的夜。

但自戀不是自欺。真正的自戀者，既能欣賞自己的優點，也敢正視自己的缺陷。他像一位嚴慈相濟的戀人，既會為你的進步欣喜，也會直指你的不足。這種愛，不蒙蔽，不縱容，而是助你成為更好的人。

如今世道，多少人將幸福寄托于外物——求他人認可，盼他人關愛，等他人拯救。卻不知，若自己都不能好好愛自己，又如何能真正愛他人，又如何能教他人愛你？

我與自己的戀愛，教我明白：生命首先是獨自的旅程。能與你走完全程的，唯有自己。所以要做自己最好的伴侶，在孤獨時不寂寞，在困境中不絕望，在歡樂時有人分享。

這戀愛談得愈久，愈覺滋味悠長。它讓我學會寬恕自己的過錯，接納自己的不完美，慶祝自己的每一個小進步。這種愛，不因歲月流逝而褪色，不因容顏老去而消減。

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如此自戀，何錯之有？我愛自己，沒有情敵，亦無須情敵。這份戀愛，從生命伊始直到終局，忠貞不二，至死不渝。

原來最浪漫的事，是與自己長相廝守。