"婚姻有時(shí)像趕公交,身邊是誰(shuí)便與誰(shuí)同行。起初的‘剛好’未必遜于‘非你不可’,日久相處中發(fā)酵成更深情感。白頭偕老的秘訣,是把‘剛好’變成‘再也離不開(kāi)’。"
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閨蜜深夜來(lái)電,聲音里浸著酒意與迷茫:“他說(shuō),不是非我不可,只是剛好遇到的是我。”電話這頭,我竟一時(shí)語(yǔ)塞。想來(lái)世間多少婚姻,不過(guò)是一場(chǎng)恰逢其時(shí)的遇見(jiàn),未必是非你不可的認(rèn)定。
婚姻這事兒,有時(shí)像趕一班公交。時(shí)候到了,身邊是誰(shuí),便與誰(shuí)同行。他未必不愛(ài)你,只是那愛(ài)里摻著太多的“剛好”——?jiǎng)偤媚昙o(jì)相當(dāng),剛好家世相配,剛好性格不討厭,剛好都到了該結(jié)婚的時(shí)候。于是順?biāo)浦郏Y(jié)為連理。
張愛(ài)玲說(shuō):“娶了紅玫瑰,久而久之,紅的變了墻上的一抹蚊子血,白的還是‘床前明月光’;娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上沾的一粒飯黏子,紅的卻是心口上一顆朱砂痣。”得不到的永遠(yuǎn)在騷動(dòng),而得到的,不過(guò)是因?yàn)椤皠偤谩钡玫健?/p>
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王小姐嫁了李先生,眾人道是郎才女貌。只有她知道,李先生書房深處藏著一封未寄出的信,寫給那個(gè)遠(yuǎn)赴重洋的初戀。信中寫道:“若非父母以死相逼,我定等你歸來(lái)。”你看,有些人走進(jìn)婚姻,不是因?yàn)閻?ài)情戰(zhàn)勝萬(wàn)難,而是因?yàn)楝F(xiàn)實(shí)剛好合適。https://github.com/vghidemita/bctnhm/blob/main/FOqIt.md
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這真相固然殘酷,卻也不必過(guò)于悲觀。“剛好是你”未必就遜于“非你不可”。天長(zhǎng)日久的相處中,那些起初的“剛好”也會(huì)發(fā)酵成更深的情感。就像一壺酒,初釀時(shí)未必驚艷,陳放數(shù)年後反而醇香動(dòng)人。https://github.com/machinekid/khvwfr/blob/main/jDHLj.md
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婚姻的真相或許就是:開(kāi)始時(shí)可能只是“剛好”,但堅(jiān)持下去卻需要真正的愛(ài)與責(zé)任。那些白頭偕老的夫妻,未必都是始于非你不可的狂熱,但一定都終于“只想是你”的執(zhí)著。
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#優(yōu)質(zhì)圖文扶持計(jì)劃#所以,若你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己的婚姻始于“剛好”,不必惶惶。世間哪有那么多命中注定?更多的是在恰好的時(shí)間遇見(jiàn)恰好的人,然后一起努力,把“剛好”變成“再也離不開(kāi)”。
婚姻的真諦不在于如何開(kāi)始,而在于如何繼續(xù)。無(wú)論是始于非你不可,還是始于剛好是你,最終能夠相守到老的,都是在平凡日子里把對(duì)方變成了不可替代的存在。
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