彼此欣賞，這才是成年人的溫柔

你有沒有見過這樣的情景？一個男同事和女同事，天天吃飯、上下班一起，連生活瑣事都隨時互通。旁人看著以為倆人“搞對象”，自己卻 ** 也不承認。時間久了，一句話、一件事，誤會就來了。友情難免變質，不是走向戀情，就變成疏遠。

其實，友情的大門只要敞開一縫，心就容易亂。男女關系再好，只要開始“越界”，結果往往不是情侶，就是陌生人。很少有人能重回單純的朋友模式。所以啊，成年人不輕易試探底線。不管是情緒依賴還是身體接觸，都要留有余地。這樣，才能一直溫暖陪伴。

但這并不是讓你拒絕所有異性朋友。正相反，朋友圈可以豐富多彩。只是，凡事得有度。你可以在工作上彼此支持，可以生活中偶爾調侃，卻不要讓對方成了你“情感的唯一出口”。友情需要善意，也需要分寸。

有朋友問：“那還怎么真心交往？”答案很簡單：坦誠但不過度，關心但不越界。你們可以大方表達感謝，也可以適當保持神秘。遇到難題先給自己一點空間，再去尋求幫助。每一段關系，都值得珍惜，但更重要的是自尊和界限。http://wap.zongpingyun.com/wnews/74459.shtml
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成年人的關系，不是靠頻繁親近維系的，而是靠彼此自律。男女之間不是不能深交，而是要學會保護自己也保護對方。別讓友誼變成人生的負擔，也別把朋友推入困惑的漩渦里。交淺言深，有時候只是“測試”友誼的深度，并不能帶來幸福。