想一想家里那個總為子女操碎了心的父親，從不舍得對孩子苛責。也想一想單位里那個總是主動加班的同事，從來沒跟領導討過好處。但你有沒有注意到，他們的善良，如果沒有邊界，往往就成了別人眼里的“理所當然”。

或許你會覺得，溫柔和大度只是本能，但《小王子》里那句“對于一切美好的事情，我們都應該保持警惕”，就是在告訴我們：善良不能盲目。善良如果沒有牙齒，就只能任人欺負。

很多中年朋友曾這么感慨：我不是不會拒絕，只是不忍心傷害別人。可慢慢發現，一味遷就，換來的只有疲憊和失落。談生意時被人輕視，家庭中常被忽略自己的需求。社交里，總有“消耗型”朋友，借你力量，最后連一句感謝都沒有。

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http://www.hfwtm.com/vendor/article.php/detail/ArTicle/52470.html這時候，就該學著讓自己的善良長點“牙齒”。不是讓你變得尖銳，而是讓人知道，你的善意需要被尊重。

像三毛說的：“以溫柔的方式，強硬一次。”

學會拒絕，讓別人明白你的底線。

敢于反擊，守住屬于你的尊嚴。

善良不是一味忍讓，也可以是一種力量。你可以溫柔，但不能軟弱。畢竟，不長牙齒的善良，都是一種自我消耗，到最后，只剩下委屈和眼淚。

每個中年人，其實都曾在彷徨中咬緊牙關——咬碎的不只是自己的委屈，還有對生活的希望。有些磨礪讓人更懂善良的分寸，也讓你知道，平等對待，就是最高級的善意。