我舅舅家阿姨，就是個典型例子。阿姨特別疼女兒，從小把所有希望都壓身上，衣服首飾全給姑娘買，連吃飯都先問她想吃啥。可女兒結婚后，阿姨更“操心”，什么都包辦。結果姑娘跟她老公吵架，阿姨常常插手；家里遇事，也非得聽阿姨的才行。往后可好了，女婿不愿跟娘家住，姑娘哭著求阿姨去兒女家說理。阿姨本意是“孝順”，可結果卻把女兒逼得夾在中間，兩邊難做人。

再看看我朋友小李，他去年決定辭掉穩定工作，去深圳創業。爸媽嚇壞了，說：“不許折騰，老老實實待著?！钡±铊F了心，各種爭吵后終于一走了之。頭幾個月苦得要命，差點吃不上飯。但一年下來，不僅公司做起來了，人也有主見了。過年回來，家里親戚都說小李孝順，鼠目寸光的爸媽也悄悄改口，大夸“孩子有出息”。

你說，什么是孝順？只是順著父母嗎？什么都聽他們的，犧牲自己的成長和幸福？表面上看順風順水，實際上壓抑了自己，將來的路反而走窄了。

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http://www.blog.igouyou.com/article/details/132656.Shtml有時候，真正的孝順，是敢于“不孝”，敢于堅持自我，敢于違背父母的某些安排。這不是不尊重長輩，而是讓父母學會“放手”，讓孩子真正承擔起自己的生活。這樣父母才能輕松，自己才能活得暢快幸福。

老梁最后跟我說：“現在兒子很少回家，但我心里反而踏實了。他有自己的家，有了責任感。咱活了半輩子，也該享享清靜，別再揪著小子的衣領不放?！?/p>

所以啊，你早晚會明白，最大的孝順，其實就是敢“不孝”。讓孩子活成自己想要的樣子，讓父母也放下操心，各自安好，這才是最真的孝順。

咱們中國人，總喜歡拴著孩子走，其實越是放手，越是深情。人生這趟旅途，孩子不必永遠順著咱，彼此尊重，各自幸福，才是家最大的福氣，你說呢？